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Mirror Mirror On The Wall ( Tips for a Long, Healthy & Passionate Lasting Relationship)

 

Hello There,

In this post, I will be talking about relationships. I’m talking to all of you Hopeless Romantics, Martyrs Of Love, The ones that Are Stuck Blind By Cupid’s Arrow, The Heartbroken & pretty much anyone that wants a meaningful Long, Healthy & Passionate Lasting Relationship.

 

I’m going to give you the tips that I learned through my spiritual journey, Coming back home to myself & falling in love with my mirror.

 

Tip 1: Be Compassionate & Use Empathy

Remember, not everyone is looking through your eyes & walking in your shoes… Let them be themselves & have their own options.

 

Tip 2: Changing Your Mind Set To Communicate With Mercy

Remember, let us not forget what Edgar Allan Poe said: “Years of love have been forgot, In the hatred of a minute.” In our anger, ego & pride we can say a lot of hurtful things to one another. We can communicate more effectively with mercy. With mercy, we can think before we speak & let the other speak their peace while we listen correctly.

 

Tip 3: Try to have a spiritual relationship or try to look into whatever there into

Another tip of mine is to have a spiritual relationship with a family member, lover, friend, or even a companion. It's a really good idea & it’s very healthy. Not only it opens the mind but it also expands the mind for better perception. It lets you have a closer more imamate relationship with the one you love. It always brings you into their world so you can have a better understanding of who they are as a soul. Not just what you see on the outside.

 

Tip 4: Be Honest To One Another

One thing we all know from experience is that we don’t like being lied to & we completely dislike lying to our loved ones. Sometimes the truth might hurt, but I rather tell the truth than lie to someone I love. How can you ever be honest with someone when you can’t even be honest with yourself? When you look into your mirror, would you really lie? Would you really hurt yourself on purpose? Hopefully, when you look into the mirror you see how beautiful you really are & don’t have to lie to yourself or anyone for that matter.

 

Tip 5: Take a Bath Together

Another great idea is to take a bath together. This is one of my favorites because you're completely open & vulnerable with the one you love. I think one of the most wonderful things about a bath is that you can see the one you love naked. Completely bare, with no masks, very intimate & most importantly very sensual. I think one of the most important things about taking a bath is about the sensuality. Knowing one's skin you are about to touch & trusting completely while being vulnerable.

 

Tip 6: Read To One Another

Reading to one another is a great way to communicate one’s interests to one another. It also gives you the space & trust to share these things with. It’s very ensuring when you have someone your intimate with sharing the same things as you. It’s not only ensuring but ultimately satisfying that you can open becoming naked to one’s options about what you share.

 

Tip 7: Be Open-Minded, It’s Only Takes A Seed Of Thought To Destroy

If anyone knows about manifestation, know we are co-creators of our own reality. I advise anyone who wants a Long, Healthy & Passionate Lasting Relationship to try to keep a high vibration. Not only that, but if problems do occur do the steps above. Try not to let the world blind your eyes when it comes to your love. Especially in these days when people have lost or even are scared shitless to be sensual & passionate because of what people might say.

 

Tip 8: It’s OK to say “You're So Fucking Hot” or “You're So Handsome” to your beloved

Giving someone, especially a lover a compliment is stroking the ego but in a very good way. It gives the Esurance & gives a sense of pride in your lover. We are not talking about egotism here. It gives them security knowing that you’re beautiful in their eyes. And they only want to look at you.

 

Tip 9: Compromise, Compromise, Compromise

When you truly love someone you will move mountains, as crazy as it sounds. But it’s true. To some people, they would not compromise a thing because they think they don’t need to... Because they think everything is perfect. But if we look into the mirror, & ask ourselves “Are you truly happy”? If the answer is no, guess what… there is room for compromise. I’m not saying it’s easy, I’m saying compromise is better than being in a relationship that you have to second-guess years later…

 

Tip 10: Have someone you can be completely bored, lazy & at peace with

If you can’t sit next to someone you inmate with & be at complete peace, there is something wrong. Your heart might be going a mile a minute because of your excitement, but if you can’t sit in your own skin & be comfortable then it’s your body telling you there is something wrong. Your body usually is never wrong and if you have a good relationship with it, it can save your life. If you have to be doing something all the time means you are fighting with your own body & this is why you're not at peace. So how can you be at peace with someone else?

 

You're going to have times when you don’t want to go out & want to stay at home. Especially if you’re an introvert & a hermit like I am. I hate going out all the time, & for me having a partner to stay inside & do absolutely nothing with. Being completely comfortable & naked gives me the security & trust for a lasting relationship.